Violence Against Women

By Maged Thabet Al-Kholidy majed
Yemen Times

This title may sound strange (There Must Be Violence Against Women) but it’s actually not just a way to attract readers to the topic because I really do mean what it indicates. Violence is a broad term, especially when used regarding women. In this piece, I want to shed light on those instances where violence against women is a must.

First, we should know the meaning of the word violence. Longman’s Dictionary of Contemporary English defines violence as “behavior that is intended to hurt other people physically.” However, the term violence mustn’t be confused with other concepts and terms such as gender inequality or absence of women rights.

Occasionally – if not daily – we hear about events occurring in Islamic and Arab societies. Some human rights organizations recently have attacked violent acts against women, standing against any type of violence – even that between a father and daughter – and citing the cases of some women as examples.

Consequently, they offer solutions such as complaining to the police, taking revenge or leaving them men, who are either their husbands, fathers or brothers – with no exceptions.

One such case involved a woman whose husband allegedly had beaten her. Without revealing the husband’s reasons for doing so, such human rights organizations immediately urged the wife to complain to the police and the courts, while at the same time generalizing the instance and other similar solutions to any type of violence.

If a man and woman are husband and wife, the Qur’an (Koran) provides solutions, firstly reaffirming any logical and acceptable reasons for such punishment. These solutions are in gradual phases and not just for women, but for men also.

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Relationships between fathers and daughters or sisters and brothers also provoke argument from human rights organizations, which propose the suggested solutions for all relationships. Personally, I don’t think fathers or brothers would undertake such behavior unless there was a reason for it.

Fathers are responsible for their daughters’ behavior, but human rights organizations deny this too. Brothers also should take action regarding their sisters’ behavior, especially if their parents are too old or dead. If a daughter or sister makes a mistake – especially a moral one – that negatively affects the entire family and its reputation, what’s the solution by such organizations?

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Fathers should handle their daughters via any means that suits their mistake; thus, is it better to use violence to a certain limit or complain to the police? Shall such women then complain to the police against their fathers or brothers? It’s really amazing to hear this.

In some cases, violence is necessary, but there must be limits. Those “good human rights organizations” don’t make any exceptions in their solutions because their aim is to serve society. Will it be a better society once we see wives, mothers, sisters and daughters going from one police station and one court to another, complaining against their husbands, fathers, brothers and even sons?

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Dear readers – especially women – don’t think that I hate or am against women; rather, I simply mean to preserve the morals and principles with which Islam has honored us. I hope my message is clear, since it’s really quite relevant to the future of our societies, which must be protected from any kind of cultural invasion.

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  1. Are you aware that you served as inspiration for the Oslo bombing and the brutal murder of young people in Utöya? Anders Behring Breivik recite you in his sick manifest. Shame on you!!!!

  2. The above essay was originally written by a Yemeni man in Yemen, and simply posted here to highlight the misogyny that prevails in 3rd world nations.

    On the topic of being “aware”, perhaps your concerns should relate closer to home, please read: http://elliotlakenews.wordpress.com/2011/05/30/norwegian-rape-assaults-by-foreigners/
    http://elliotlakenews.wordpress.com/2006/12/13/raped-in-oslo-norway/

    If you’re referring to the general tone of this blog, we’re not personally responsible to tens of thousands of readers who read our posts.

    Further to the topic of Breivik, however, this link takes a somewhat harsher view on that tragic event in Norway.
    http://www.occidentaldissent.com/2011/07/25/knights-templar-honesty-and-hypocrisy/

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